Virgo in Love

Goodness know why word has it that Virgos are the staunch realists of the zodiac - the sign that is to romance what chalk is to cheese - but ignorance breeds many falsehoods. In truth Ms Virgo yearns to be swept away by love and passion and longs to find her soul-mate. However, since her logical mind informs her that this probably won't happen - at least in this lifetime - she makes an awful lot of noise about love being the holy grail of the seriously misguided. (She really doesn't mean it and she's hoping against hope that one day she'll be proved wrong.)

You and your opposite sign, the mystical and dreamy Fish, have more in common than you may think. The main difference is that while Ms Pisces dives into love and allows herself to be totally submerged by the experience, Virgo stands on the edge of those deep waters, analysing the pros and cons, until she convinces herself that her wetsuit will protect her. At some point, usually after several painful excursions into love, you realize that you cannot seal yourself off from hurt because it is the handmaid of love.

For some reason, perhaps because you can't resist lost causes, your sign picks up more than its share of life's dependents and misfits as partners, men who use and abuse you. This doesn't have to be a life-long pattern, of course, but the trend towards sacrificing yourself through a relationship needs to be faced and understood, so that you will attract a sane, loving and supportive mate. Part of the problem revolves around self-esteem, or the lack of it, and as soon as you get the idea that you deserve to be loved, like magic, it happens.

Forget all that nonsense about Virgo being the librarian and the caretaker of the zodiac - you are a sensuous, resourceful and fascinating creature. Now, repeat after me: I am desirable. I am a wild thing. I deserve the best.

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The Virgoan Man

Virgo men do not draw attention to themselves: they insinuate their way into your life. Somehow they appear from behind the scenes and steel your heart: they were just a friend, maybe a no strings attached one-night-stand, yet before you know it you have become reliant on their know-how, happy to be an audience for their dry humour and pithy comments, and, well, used to them. To be honest, Mr Virgo can be tricky: he's emotionally very self-contained and not open to intimacy - a stark contrast to his passion and his performance under the sheets, or anywhere come to that - he's quite the dark horse. This man is drawn to highly-sexed and colourful, spontaneous women of the fire and air variety, yet when it comes to marriage (usually late and sometimes never) he'll go for a safe bet.

Who's For You

Your fellow Mutable signs top the list of candidates for your heart - Sagittarius, Gemini, Pisces and Virgo. Sagittarian men are just the most dazzling, devil-may-care hunks where you're concerned: they make you laugh, keep you guessing and defrost any icicles that may have formed around your heart. Yet in the long term you may find your Archer a little too casual, irresponsible and inconsiderate for you. The Gemini is another irresistible catch-me-if-you-can guy: you two never stop talking (or is that arguing?) and even though this relationship may not fulfil the promise of its sexual overture, you can manage a happy-ever-after story. Pisces is your near-perfect mate - sentimental, tolerant, forgiving and loving: sex is a crucial part of your relationship and can be sustained for many, many years. Another Virgo alternately captivates and irritates you, but a good long-term bet. Cancer and Scorpio are two other signs made to make you happy - these two signs appreciate your fine qualities and rub along with you very, very nicely.

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Life Love Money The Spring Horoscope for Virgo

Being in charge of your own destiny empowers you on all fronts but there are times when events dictate your course, and the spring is just such a time. Make a note of the solar eclipse of 20th May because fate could take you in a surprising new direction. On more than one occasion you will find yourself locked down in intense discussions where it seems you have little or no say in the outcome. However, this is a temporary state of affairs. Other people can exert a beneficial influence, even if their ideas are totally different from yours. Whether you’re trying to reach a decision about a relationship, where to live or a financial matter, give the other party a chance to prove his or her point. Travel is a big feature of your spring stars with some Virgos making the journey of a lifetime in May, although this could be a metaphor for acquiring a valuable lesson in life.

So, how are you getting along with Neptune? This planet has been in the zone of relationships since February so if you’ve been taken to the stars or unceremoniously dumped on terra firma you already have some idea of what this planet can do for your love life. In May Neptune combines with a solar eclipse to bring about a marvellous development, although if you have been blinded to the reality of a partner you could get something of an eye-opener. The full moon of 8 March could play another important part in ensuring you have the right person by your side. You are beginning a phase in which you could well be attracted to people of power and influence, and love affairs can spring up through work. What you do about it is up to you, but if either of you has an existing partner, the chances of the affair morphing into a long-term commitment is slim.

On 11 June, Jupiter reaches the highest point of your solar chart from where it will exert a hugely positive influence for the following twelve months. Some Virgos could achieve fame, and many will gain a higher profile, but in all cases there will be improvements. The caveat being that you must be prepared to try new things, and push yourself further than you believe you can go. A sacrifice of some description may be asked of you; only you can decide whether or not it is worth it, however, knowing that this may be your best opportunity to make it to the top, could influence your decision. Uranus and Saturn continue to affect finances, so you may alternate between feeling very positive about the future and somewhat fearful. Have confidence, especially if you are the breadwinner. You have it in your power to do well and overcome any problems.