Now, will the real Gemini please stand up! If you're a mystery to yourself at times you're an even greater one to your lovers and partners - they don't know who they're going to wake up with on any given day, which, of course, is part of your charm and also your dilemma. You tend to think about love too much, worry too much and analyse your feelings too much, all of which gets in the way of the organic flow of a relationship. One day, you'll think you feel one way, and the next, another: you'll be passionate and needy on one occasion, and cool and remote on the next. Your inconsistency is quintessentially feminine, but very frustrating for both you and your partners. Learning to trust your feelings, share intimacy and to shut down the commentator in your brain are three ways of resolving your dilemma, living with another mutable sign is a fourth (more about this later).
As an air sign, the mind is the most important 'organ' of your body - you are an experimenter, and someone who enjoys playing and fantasizing. Yet you also need consistency and constancy in your life. This too poses a dilemma, because while you can fall in love and marry, inevitably you will become bored by the routine of marriage and the familiarity of your partner - there is no medication for this attention deficit disorder! Thus, extra-marital affairs are all too often the route that the restless Gemini heart takes, followed by a trip to the divorce courts. And not once, but often many times. Marilyn Monroe (three planets in Gemini, two marriages and countless affairs) reportedly telephoned a friend on the day she married Joe DiMaggio stating that she needed to get a divorce. Pronto.
Who is that man on the run, waving his hands in the air, talking to someone on his cell phone while addressing a group of followers? It's Gemini Man, of course. This man is convinced that it's harder to hit a moving target - a philosophy that works as well for his business life as it does for his love life. The best way to capture the heart of Mr Gemini, is to keep him at a distance too: he is particularly attracted to passionate and emotionally complex women, yet he cannot take angry scenes and copious tears. You see, he is difficult. There are, at least two men within every Gemini - Mr Nice Guy and Mr Ice Guy - this man will freeze you out when he's upset, angry or moving on. Still interested? Well, no surprise there, because the Gemini can be the most fascinating, boyish and charming man in the zodiac.
Here's where the other Mutable signs come in, for being with a Virgo, Pisces, Sagittarian or another Gemini can feel like 'coming home'. Mr Virgo makes an excellent fencing partner - and we're talking a skirmish of words here - and you tune into each other's sexuality in a deep, dark and mysterious way. In the long run however, that war of words can turn very nasty. Mr Pisces, proves endlessly fascinating and brings out your protective and responsible side - sex at the start of the relationship is out of this world, but after a couple of years it may peter out completely. The Sagittarian is a great companion, - a soul mate, a kindred spirit: you both drive each other bananas at times, and the sex could be less than wonderful, but you'll sustain a life-long affection for each other. And the same goes for Mr Gemini. Aries and Leo are two fire signs who are made to make Ms Gemini happy - these two signs give you a run for your money, they make stimulating partners and loving supporters.
Tanzanite, Topaz and Beryl.
Putting in infrastructures is the theme of the autumn, whether this applies to the home, work or relationships. It’s not that some aspects of your life are out of control but that in order to function more efficiently and for new endeavours to thrive and prosper you need to nip, tuck and tighten! To this end the beginning of October helps you de-clutter your life. Work is the focus for some of the more important alignments of the next three months, and the solar eclipse of the 3 November would be the perfect time to begin a new job. Health is also under the astro-microscope: there hasn’t been a better period for a while to get trimmer and fitter, although some Geminis may have to attend to a minor problem before it becomes major. The full moon of 17 December brings a situation full circle, leading to some important moves in the New Year.
In a little over a year’s time Saturn will enter the relationship zone, and since this planet’s job is to expose weaknesses, now would be an optimum moment to take a long hard look at your love life. If you’re falling for people who cannot commit, maybe you too have a deep-seated reluctance to and fear of commitment. On the other hand, are you failing to address problems in a relationship because you don’t like confrontation, you are setting yourself up for a serious upset further down the line. From 7 October to 5 November Venus will help you reach happy conclusions, and if you’re looking for love you have your best chance of the year to find it. The full moon of 17 December is likely to have its biggest impact on the future of a relationship with some Geminis set to tie the knot in the New Year, and others to end a long-standing relationship.
We have talked Neptune before so it may come as no surprise that some of you are experiencing difficulty in finding your way career-wise and in feeling professionally secure. Opting for temporary work is one solution, recognizing that you yourself may be sending out signals of frustration and uncertainty is another. When we’re questioning our true direction, the cosmos does not give us an immediate answer: we find out when we get there! While Gemini can thrive in a corporate structure, with the current planetary set-up doing your own thing may suit you far better. Entrepreneurial ventures geared to helping mankind, communications and the arts are perfect vessels for your talents. Jupiter is not yet half-way through its transit of the financial zone, so if you haven’t yet seen improvements, don’t lose heart. On the other hand, if finances are spiralling out of control, cut your losses.
DOB: 9th Jun 1963
Despite the flirtatious twinkle in his eye he is Mr Faithful at heart - a family man, a traditionalist. Sex is a medium through which he both finds and loses himself but there's a disturbing history here somewhere and some damage.
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