Gemini in Love

Now, will the real Gemini please stand up! If you're a mystery to yourself at times you're an even greater one to your lovers and partners - they don't know who they're going to wake up with on any given day, which, of course, is part of your charm and also your dilemma. You tend to think about love too much, worry too much and analyse your feelings too much, all of which gets in the way of the organic flow of a relationship. One day, you'll think you feel one way, and the next, another: you'll be passionate and needy on one occasion, and cool and remote on the next. Your inconsistency is quintessentially feminine, but very frustrating for both you and your partners. Learning to trust your feelings, share intimacy and to shut down the commentator in your brain are three ways of resolving your dilemma, living with another mutable sign is a fourth (more about this later).

As an air sign, the mind is the most important 'organ' of your body - you are an experimenter, and someone who enjoys playing and fantasizing. Yet you also need consistency and constancy in your life. This too poses a dilemma, because while you can fall in love and marry, inevitably you will become bored by the routine of marriage and the familiarity of your partner - there is no medication for this attention deficit disorder! Thus, extra-marital affairs are all too often the route that the restless Gemini heart takes, followed by a trip to the divorce courts. And not once, but often many times. Marilyn Monroe (three planets in Gemini, two marriages and countless affairs) reportedly telephoned a friend on the day she married Joe DiMaggio stating that she needed to get a divorce. Pronto.

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The Geminian Man

Who is that man on the run, waving his hands in the air, talking to someone on his cell phone while addressing a group of followers? It's Gemini Man, of course. This man is convinced that it's harder to hit a moving target - a philosophy that works as well for his business life as it does for his love life. The best way to capture the heart of Mr Gemini, is to keep him at a distance too: he is particularly attracted to passionate and emotionally complex women, yet he cannot take angry scenes and copious tears. You see, he is difficult. There are, at least two men within every Gemini - Mr Nice Guy and Mr Ice Guy - this man will freeze you out when he's upset, angry or moving on. Still interested? Well, no surprise there, because the Gemini can be the most fascinating, boyish and charming man in the zodiac.

Who's For You

Here's where the other Mutable signs come in, for being with a Virgo, Pisces, Sagittarian or another Gemini can feel like 'coming home'. Mr Virgo makes an excellent fencing partner - and we're talking a skirmish of words here - and you tune into each other's sexuality in a deep, dark and mysterious way. In the long run however, that war of words can turn very nasty. Mr Pisces, proves endlessly fascinating and brings out your protective and responsible side - sex at the start of the relationship is out of this world, but after a couple of years it may peter out completely. The Sagittarian is a great companion, - a soul mate, a kindred spirit: you both drive each other bananas at times, and the sex could be less than wonderful, but you'll sustain a life-long affection for each other. And the same goes for Mr Gemini. Aries and Leo are two fire signs who are made to make Ms Gemini happy - these two signs give you a run for your money, they make stimulating partners and loving supporters.

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Your Stone

What you should wear in your wedding or engagement ring

Tanzanite, Topaz and Beryl.

Life Love Money The Spring Horoscope for Gemini

Can you already sense something ‘big’ on its way? No surprise if you can, since the approach of two eclipses (20th May and 4th June) and Jupiter’s arrival in your sign (11th June) are set to change many Geminis’ lives forever. Of course, you may have plans in the diary that promise to do just that, but for many celestial Twins it is an event that comes out of the blue that re-shapes part of your life. By mid-April there should be signs and signals of great things to come, and this is the right time to initiate projects and plans of your own. In many ways, you are poised to enter one of the most successful phases of the decade, even if events at the time seem quite the reverse. Dreams versus reality continues to be a dominant theme though, so although you should have the courage of your hopes and ambitions they must be backed up with solid material.

April 3rd brings romantic Venus into your sign where she will remain for four long months. Your image is always enhanced by this planet, which may simply auger a period when you feel at your best and there are plenty of good times to enjoy, but in many cases such a Venus transit will draw true love towards you. Therefore, for some Geminis, 2012 is going to be the year for love and marriage. The new moon of 19 June would be the perfect moment to say, “I do”. On 15th May, however, Venus turns retrograde, potentially altering the dynamics of a relationship. Should a love affair start to go cold or a separation come about, leave the situation to work itself out. On the other hand, should you meet a new partner during this time, information coming to light in the future – possibly in late June – could reverse your feelings for that person.

If you are beginning to feel somewhat disenchanted with your job or retirement/redundancy looms, Neptune is making its presence felt, and you may well be in the 20th – 28th May birthday group. Under no circumstances should you allow your confidence or your sense of self to be eroded by what happens in the work place. In the weeks and months to come, you will be guided towards new fields, and in the process many of you will find your true calling. Your quick mind and adaptable personality help you achieve financial success, even in a tricky economic climate like this one. Nothing changes this basic pattern, Gemini. In the event of a property sale going sour or some other financial glitch, you will turn it around in no time at all.