Arians have a pioneering spirit when it comes to affairs of the heart, and a rather naive approach to relationships generally. You learn by experience, slowly: it takes many tangos with Mr Wrong before you realize mother was right all along - marry in haste, repent at leisure. Your passions are easily ignited and just as quickly extinguished, sometimes because familiarity and routine breed disinterest but most often because the thunderbolt of love blinded you to the fact that your Prince Charming had webbed feet. Yes, you are hot-blooded, warm-hearted, giving and highly committed, but not only would you save yourself serious disappointment by taking the time to get to know someone properly but you would also benefit from allowing a guy discover for himself all your manifold virtues. He really doesn't need a daily bulletin of your assets. Then, there's your talent for leadership - or shall we just call it what it really is, bossiness. As my lovely Gemini husband said in exasperation to his Aries wife the other day, 'I'm simply not used to having my life run for me by a five foot two inch woman'.
Love and relationships improve with age, fortunately, but almost always after one or two painful excursions to the divorce court. Once you have discovered what a terrific person you are, and that you can manage perfectly well on your own, you no longer feel the need to sweep each and every man you meet off his feet, just to prove to him and the world what a catch you are. You also learn, by trial and error, that it is better to let the guy kill dragons for you, not the other way around. And the good thing is, that by the time other women's idea of fun is joining the knitting circle in the old-age home, you'll be heading off to the Amazon with your much younger man who simply adores you!
The Aries guy is always at his best at the start of the relationship. He's terribly keen to impress you and his passion will convince you that you're the only one for him. And you are - for the time being. Mr Aries, like Mr Gemini and Sagittarius has a short attention span. To keep him hot on your trot to the altar, and for evermore, be mysterious and unavailable. This man loves practical, sensible, prudent and classy women. He is fun to be with, a confident and innovative partner, generous - actually, a bit of a spendthrift - but he needs enormous amounts of ego-massage to keep him happy and stable.
Aries is attracted to partners who also belong to the Cardinal signs, and these, besides Aries with whom you share a happy but bumpy ride are: Capricorn, Cancer and Libra. The Capricorn male adores your energy and vitality while you love his strength and reserve, his practicality and his consistency. The sexual chemistry between you can be fantastic: the trouble is, in the long run the celestial Goat can become rather boring and he may try to over-control, and certainly criticise you. Mr Cancer loves your confidence and your wild streak while you love all that deep emotion and sensuous love-making. Once the honeymoon is over however, the Cancerian male could alienate you with his moods and silences. Libran men are an excellent match and definitely provide balance for you. The love affair can go on and on and on. Gemini and Aquarius are two more signs that go well with Aries. You'll never be bored with either of these two airy men - life will be full of adventure, experiment and fun.
Diamond, ruby and bloodstone.
You may be fearless but the journey you’ve been on these past few years has given you plenty to complain about. Nothing has come easily and you’ve lost friends and supporters along the way. But there is change, and change for the better. Jupiter’s entry into Libra on 9th September marks the beginning of a year of opportunity and growth. But even before then you should have reason to believe that you are at last on the road to recovery. 2016 is the time to add to your bank of skills, whether you acquire these as a by-product of situations that are thrust upon you or you make a deliberate decision to acquire new talents. Keep thinking where you want to be five or ten years down the line. As long as your goals are realistic, your heart true and your spirit strong you cannot go wrong. Give up too easily, take the path of least resistance and listen to lesser beings and nothing will change for the better.
With Jupiter’s entry into the area of relating you are beginning a new twelve-year cycle. For many Arians this will be marked by marriage or the reaffirmation of your wedding vows. And should you wish to name the day, why not opt for 1st October when the stars will be in perfect harmony. Of course, not every Arian is going to feel blessed by love, and especially if you have a birthday on or near 7th April or you are forty-two years of age, relationships will be volatile this year. And even if you believe your love relationship can and will stand the test of time, a working partnership or a close friendship could fall by the wayside. Christmas is another special time for love: an unexpected proposal for some, a trip to a romantic destination for others and for all a sense that there are still romantic adventures ahead. You’re never too old or too bruised.
The combination of Pluto in the area of life goals and Jupiter in the work zone could do marvellous things for many Arians. Preparation meets opportunity in mid-March and mid-June, and you should select these periods to make your boldest career moves. September is another month of success and growth, and although you may not be able to say your dreams have finally come true, you will make serious progress in 2016. Late April and late October are delicate periods for finance, and you should play it very safe with any investments or partnership agreements. Until signatures are on paper and money in the bank, do not assume a deal is in the bag. Tread carefully with legal matters too: with Saturn in the ninth house justice is not always in your court. The secret of success this year is to have the courage to take on big challenges but to know when you are getting in over your head.
DOB: 1st Apr 1961
What kind of woman at the age of forty-eight, frumpy, overweight and sporting one of the great uni-brows, could stand centre stage in front of hundreds of people and sing as though she was already a platinum-label recording star. An Aries with Gemini rising, that's who!
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