Arians have a pioneering spirit when it comes to affairs of the heart, and a rather naive approach to relationships generally. You learn by experience, slowly: it takes many tangos with Mr Wrong before you realize mother was right all along - marry in haste, repent at leisure. Your passions are easily ignited and just as quickly extinguished, sometimes because familiarity and routine breed disinterest but most often because the thunderbolt of love blinded you to the fact that your Prince Charming had webbed feet. Yes, you are hot-blooded, warm-hearted, giving and highly committed, but not only would you save yourself serious disappointment by taking the time to get to know someone properly but you would also benefit from allowing a guy discover for himself all your manifold virtues. He really doesn't need a daily bulletin of your assets. Then, there's your talent for leadership - or shall we just call it what it really is, bossiness. As my lovely Gemini husband said in exasperation to his Aries wife the other day, 'I'm simply not used to having my life run for me by a five foot two inch woman'.
Love and relationships improve with age, fortunately, but almost always after one or two painful excursions to the divorce court. Once you have discovered what a terrific person you are, and that you can manage perfectly well on your own, you no longer feel the need to sweep each and every man you meet off his feet, just to prove to him and the world what a catch you are. You also learn, by trial and error, that it is better to let the guy kill dragons for you, not the other way around. And the good thing is, that by the time other women's idea of fun is joining the knitting circle in the old-age home, you'll be heading off to the Amazon with your much younger man who simply adores you!
The Aries guy is always at his best at the start of the relationship. He's terribly keen to impress you and his passion will convince you that you're the only one for him. And you are - for the time being. Mr Aries, like Mr Gemini and Sagittarius has a short attention span. To keep him hot on your trot to the altar, and for evermore, be mysterious and unavailable. This man loves practical, sensible, prudent and classy women. He is fun to be with, a confident and innovative partner, generous - actually, a bit of a spendthrift - but he needs enormous amounts of ego-massage to keep him happy and stable.
Aries is attracted to partners who also belong to the Cardinal signs, and these, besides Aries with whom you share a happy but bumpy ride are: Capricorn, Cancer and Libra. The Capricorn male adores your energy and vitality while you love his strength and reserve, his practicality and his consistency. The sexual chemistry between you can be fantastic: the trouble is, in the long run the celestial Goat can become rather boring and he may try to over-control, and certainly criticise you. Mr Cancer loves your confidence and your wild streak while you love all that deep emotion and sensuous love-making. Once the honeymoon is over however, the Cancerian male could alienate you with his moods and silences. Libran men are an excellent match and definitely provide balance for you. The love affair can go on and on and on. Gemini and Aquarius are two more signs that go well with Aries. You'll never be bored with either of these two airy men - life will be full of adventure, experiment and fun.
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2014 is a watershed year. You are leaving behind an established pattern of existence and moving into a new world. This may be quite literal in that you will be leaving home territory and living and working in a foreign location; but it is also a metaphor: you yourself are fundamentally changing so that certain aspects of life, certain people, are fading into the distance. And it’s a positive thing; not something to be feared. The eclipses of 15 April and 8 October are the year’s power points, and it is around these dates that the most impressive developments take place. Do not overreach yourself in 2014. This does not mean you cannot aspire to better things; more that you don’t punch above your weight and live beyond your means. Good things will come toward you and you want to be ready to seize them, not rushing around trying to find funds and complete unfinished business. From mid-July creativity in all its many guises is a major theme: parenthood for some; a life-style make-over for others.
With sexy but combative Mars in your opposite sign until late July, it’s who you know and who loves you. People can make or break you. If you think you’ve come to terms with being single, don’t be surprised when the love of your life comes along and makes you an offer you cannot refuse! And should you have resigned yourself to yet more years in relationship purgatory, don’t be amazed if events on or near those aforementioned eclipse dates bring an end to your term of trial. Jupiter’s passage through the love zone from July onwards will mend many broken hearts and preside over many happy celebrations. May and October are the times to plan special dates with your significant other – the weekend of 18 October is perfect for a wedding. By contrast, a long-term relationship could go up in smoke on or near 23 April.
There are many great opportunities just waiting for you, Aries, so remain cool and collected should jobs and partnerships suddenly end. Keep focused and rather than toot your own horn, let your work speak for itself. People have noticed you, and a top job could become yours. Nevertheless, you have made enemies... Once again it is that late April period that has the most to offer in the way of new jobs and opportunities to showcase your leadership skills and creative talents. January is difficult month career-wise and money-wise, and reality checks will be par for the course in mid-May, early August and late November. Saturn continues to warn against overspending and over-optimistic projections, but property sales and purchases should do much to boost your long-term financial interests. Aries is one of the zodiac’s greatest entrepreneurs, so if you haven’t yet considered starting your own business, what’s stopping you? Certainly not 2014’s seminal alignments.
DOB: 17th Apr 1974
Victoria is feisty and fearless, a trendsetter and role model. Balancing out all her air and fire signs is a sweet and loving Venus-Jupiter conjunction in Pisces... in other words, she's all woman!
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