Aquarius in Love

To Aquarius, love and marriage do not necessarily go hand in hand. You are the freedom fighter of the zodiac: your Aquarian antecedents were the Suffragettes, who chained themselves to railings, demanding the right to vote! And there's something of the Suffragette in every Aquarian female. Regardless of your physical attributes, you could never be regarded as a 'doll', a pretty, empty-headed thing - you have a fine mind, strong opinions and a desire to do something worthwhile with your life. Thus, you attract a certain kind of man, and alienate others. Strong women are feared by a lot of men.

Friendship is a key component of your romantic relationships. Whether it is because you are a little frightened of losing your heart and being out of control, you tend to keep the men you are fiercely attracted to at arms' length. In this way, you give very mixed signals: a man senses the attraction between you yet he is confused by your apparent indifference to him.

Part of the conundrum of being an Aquarian is that while you are an air sign, and therefore a creature of ideas and ideals, you are also Fixed, which means you can be resistant to change and somewhat set in your views and behaviours. Also, while you can hold a very liberal attitude to sex and sexuality, you tend to be faithful and possessive. A paradox indeed.

Like Ms. Capricorn, you need to trust your feelings a lot more, to allow yourself to express your needs and reveal your vulnerability. Staying in a relationship through a misguided sense of loyalty and fear of change is no route to happiness and fulfilment, nor is keeping your heart locked firmly behind an armour-plated wall. Then again, the men who fall in love with you, and remain locked in your aura for eternity, do so because you are such an enigma, she-who-cannot-be-possessed, their very own Greta Garbo.

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The Aquarian Man

If you want, cuddles, passionate exchanges and gestures of undying love, please give Mr Aquarius a wide berth. This man is the most emotionally inarticulate chap in the zodiac - he has deep feelings but he simply cannot deal with them. If he is in danger of falling in love with you, he'll treat you with apathy, he may even seem to actively dislike you. But that's his way of protecting his feelings.

He is on very firm ground when he's with his friends or with a group of people, discussing current affairs and telling jokes; he'll be in a serious state of panic on a one-to-one basis with a woman he finds attractive. Like all cerebral men, he is deeply drawn to passionate and emotionally complex women, who drive him stir-crazy and prove the point that love is for the birds. He is kind of endearing though in his ingenuousness, and he can be very faithful once he's found his heart's desire.

Who's For You

You have a natural affinity and a serious degree of attraction for your fellow Fixed signs - Taurus, Scorpio, Leo and Aquarius. Mr Scorpio is almost irresistible. There is something of the night about him - he has all the passion and dark mystery you could ever want to experience. The question is: do you want to go on and on feeling permanently drained of your life's blood! Mr Taurus, is another sensuous beast. This man is also very reliable, and able to stand his ground when you go off on one of your tangents: with him you can stay the marital course.

Your true opposite is Mr Leo, and like all opposites there is both attraction and repulsion. This fire sign warms the cockles of your heart and makes life fun, although this has to be balanced against rather a lot of heated arguments and temper tantrums. Another Aquarian can also prove to be a loyal and durable mate: you look at life through the same window, although you could do with looking more into each other's heart. Aries and Sagittarius are two signs with whom you get along famously - wonderful friends, enduring travellers on life's path and very warm and loving.

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Your Stone

What you should wear in your wedding or engagement ring

Amethyst, jade, chalcedony.

Life Love Money The Spring Horoscope for Aquarius

Just like spring itself you are bursting with energy and new ideas! Well, at least, you’re getting out of a winter rut and beginning to look at aspects of your life with more enthusiasm. March puts the focus on going-places, whether this translates as a journey overseas or a considerable amount of to-ing and fro-ing. There is a strong emphasis on home affairs with many Aquarians redecorating or moving, and others coping with unexpected events in the lives of family members or putting together a grand occasion. Learning curves are in there too, and in the best of ways: a study course maybe, retraining perhaps, and opportunities to expand your knowledge and spread your influence through the local community, and beyond. The eclipses of 20th May and 4th June highlight creative endeavours – a new arrival may be on the way, whether in the form of a baby, an entrepreneurial project or an event that prompts big changes in your lifestyle.

Home is where the heart is. This familiar saying could prove highly relevant to your love life during the spring. Some Aquarians will be moving in with a new partner, others devoting more time to close family and placing romance temporarily on the back burner, but for many Aquarians this starry message is about being truly at home with someone you love – finding that emotional bond that unites you at a deep and profound level. And this is what your spring stars offer you. Whatever special occasions there may be, however many social events and evenings out, if you cannot be comfortable in your own skin with someone, happy just to know he or she is around, something is missing, and it is a hole that will only get bigger. With this in mind, look closely at events on or near 24th March, 6th May and 3rd June – they may have much to tell you about the true state of a relationship.

Jupiter is always somewhere in your chart, so there is always some aspect of your life that is a source of growth and happiness, and according to your solar chart that area is the home and the family. The spring is an excellent time to put a property on the market, to add to the value of your home or to move house. It is also a good quarter to start new professional ventures and to work more from home, even start a home or family-run business. Should you need investment from others, offers should come in during the second half of April, and from this point finances experience a lot more positive activity. While you may feel that it is better to be in a job that offers you security even if you are creatively unfulfilled, as 2012 goes by your opinions may change. This is the decade of the entrepreneur, and if anyone can come up with a business idea and make it work, Aquarius can.