To Aquarius, love and marriage do not necessarily go hand in hand. You are the freedom fighter of the zodiac: your Aquarian antecedents were the Suffragettes, who chained themselves to railings, demanding the right to vote! And there's something of the Suffragette in every Aquarian female. Regardless of your physical attributes, you could never be regarded as a 'doll', a pretty, empty-headed thing - you have a fine mind, strong opinions and a desire to do something worthwhile with your life. Thus, you attract a certain kind of man, and alienate others. Strong women are feared by a lot of men.
Friendship is a key component of your romantic relationships. Whether it is because you are a little frightened of losing your heart and being out of control, you tend to keep the men you are fiercely attracted to at arms' length. In this way, you give very mixed signals: a man senses the attraction between you yet he is confused by your apparent indifference to him.
Part of the conundrum of being an Aquarian is that while you are an air sign, and therefore a creature of ideas and ideals, you are also Fixed, which means you can be resistant to change and somewhat set in your views and behaviours. Also, while you can hold a very liberal attitude to sex and sexuality, you tend to be faithful and possessive. A paradox indeed.
Like Ms. Capricorn, you need to trust your feelings a lot more, to allow yourself to express your needs and reveal your vulnerability. Staying in a relationship through a misguided sense of loyalty and fear of change is no route to happiness and fulfilment, nor is keeping your heart locked firmly behind an armour-plated wall. Then again, the men who fall in love with you, and remain locked in your aura for eternity, do so because you are such an enigma, she-who-cannot-be-possessed, their very own Greta Garbo.
If you want, cuddles, passionate exchanges and gestures of undying love, please give Mr Aquarius a wide berth. This man is the most emotionally inarticulate chap in the zodiac - he has deep feelings but he simply cannot deal with them. If he is in danger of falling in love with you, he'll treat you with apathy, he may even seem to actively dislike you. But that's his way of protecting his feelings.
He is on very firm ground when he's with his friends or with a group of people, discussing current affairs and telling jokes; he'll be in a serious state of panic on a one-to-one basis with a woman he finds attractive. Like all cerebral men, he is deeply drawn to passionate and emotionally complex women, who drive him stir-crazy and prove the point that love is for the birds. He is kind of endearing though in his ingenuousness, and he can be very faithful once he's found his heart's desire.
You have a natural affinity and a serious degree of attraction for your fellow Fixed signs - Taurus, Scorpio, Leo and Aquarius. Mr Scorpio is almost irresistible. There is something of the night about him - he has all the passion and dark mystery you could ever want to experience. The question is: do you want to go on and on feeling permanently drained of your life's blood! Mr Taurus, is another sensuous beast. This man is also very reliable, and able to stand his ground when you go off on one of your tangents: with him you can stay the marital course.
Your true opposite is Mr Leo, and like all opposites there is both attraction and repulsion. This fire sign warms the cockles of your heart and makes life fun, although this has to be balanced against rather a lot of heated arguments and temper tantrums. Another Aquarian can also prove to be a loyal and durable mate: you look at life through the same window, although you could do with looking more into each other's heart. Aries and Sagittarius are two signs with whom you get along famously - wonderful friends, enduring travellers on life's path and very warm and loving.
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There are many factors which go to make 2014 a better year than last, and Jupiter is one of them. In mid-July this planet will enter your opposite sign boosting your confidence and generating opportunities to expand your life. 2014 is the time to pull out all the stops to do that thing you’ve been longing to do. For some Aquarians this goal will involve travel and distant places; for others it may be necessary to retrain or begin a study course; and in general, by being prepared to go a long, long way for who and what you want you’ll finally make it. There will be strange coincidences and lucky breaks too, which will add to the sense that you are being guided and supported. Not that you can expect 365 days of pure bliss. Saturn remains in its dominant position so if something or someone is not right for you, success will not be yours. Be philosophical about your gains and losses, especially in early February, mid-May, mid-August and late November.
Now, I don’t want to raise your hopes too high in case expectations exceed reality, but there could be some excellent happenings in the love department during the next 18 months. If you’ve been thinking of getting married, turn that thought into action, and how about Valentine’s Day or the end of March or mid August? Destiny always has the upper hand, of course, but the chances are you’ll find Mr or Ms Right between now and mid-2015. Avoid making a list of must-haves in a future partner, though. Concentrate instead on becoming happier and more fulfilled as a person: your positive, un-needy energy will draw the right partner toward you. And it will improve relationships that are creaking along too. There are periods of 2014 tailor-made to put pressure on established relationships, and these are late April/early May, late August and mid-November. Work through the problems: they’ll make you stronger as a couple, and if you have to part you’ll know you did all you could.
Where career is concerned the fast-lane is not for you in 2014. You’ll reach your goals but there will be obstacles. Saturn always makes you work for your money! Having Jupiter in the equation from July onwards will bring people on side who will promote you and provide good advice; and going into business partnerships or joining new organizations is recommended. And if a PR exercise would speed your success, make the investment. Social media is also going to prove to be a positive aid to career progress, so don’t dismiss a minor connection or an offer that appears demeaning. 2014 is also a year to develop new skills. Waste is the issue to conquer when it comes to money, if not some other aspects of your existence. You could be overpaying, taking on financial responsibilities that belong to others and failing to be disciplined enough in your spending. Stop the haemorrhaging, and the money panic will cease to exist. And that’s another reason you’ll be able to fulfil that dream of yours.
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